To love and to hate

Have you ever loved so much that you began to hate this person. Or have you hated a person but then felt an extremely strong attraction to this person.

These are traditional situations for us. Such cases happen constantly with us, our friends etc.

This problem has become so discussed that even scientists tried to explain it. They explain it this way. During the years of existence of humanity, human organism has elaborated special defence reactions. People express aggressiveness to save them from unrequited love.

If the process of converting love into hater passes lasts long time, the process of turning hater into love is very fast.

According to another theory of scientists, female chooses a strong male by her instincts and being aggressive with him and even hating him she puts some difficulties to him in such a way inspecting his courage and power.

Well, sometimes people say that if you love someone very much, some day you'll start to hate him. The same we can say but vice versa. Sometimes you can see two people quarrelling and having conflicts all the time, but in a few weeks they smile to each other trying to flirt. It happens very often. Psychologists explain it by the fact that people try to make their relations and their period of dates more interesting and more emotional.

The process of turning love into hater is very complicated. First of all it depends a lot on people. It takes long time. First of all people who are in love start to quarrel, argue, new conflict appear. Then they begin to offend each other, and it results into unpredictable and really awful process of turning love into hater. As a rule it happens with the couples that spend too much time together.

Besides, hater may appear as a result of unrequited love. A person begins to realise that the person he/she loves will never be with him/her. As a result he/she starts to offend the others. He/she begins to hate a person because he/she loves too much.

Love is always a good feeling, but hater is a feeling that develops from love. Love can't last for a long time. But respect, friendship, care and tenderness come to its place. But sometimes hater comes. And it is the worst that may happen. People must respect each other always.