The first love

Do you remember your first love?? This feeling can't be forgotten. The first love comes to us in early age. The first love is the most anxious and the most vivid. We remember it forever because it is filled with worry and anxiety.

Usually it comes to us at school and in Universities. Teenagers are those who suffer from first love. As they haven't felt it before, teens don't know what to do with this first feeling and they simply start to do stupid things.

Almost everybody remembers the first kiss, the first hug, the first date in his/her life. Sometimes we turn the first love into the only real love. Sometimes it can be a nice script for the drama film. That is why some people say that the object of the first love can't be forgotten and that people will be always in love with their first beloved person. Of course it is exaggeration, because there are a lot of people who got married with their second, third etc love and lived together for many years.

The first feelings of love are the strongest. The absolute happiness is the feeling that remains from the first love.

Besides, first love is the first experience of a person. He/she has nothing to compare this feeling with. That is why teens consider people they are in love with to be the best in the world and the only people they could fall in love with.

As a rule the first love is unrequited love. And a thing (a person in our case) that can't be gained is the most desirable. As a rule, boys fall in love with the most beautiful girl at school, and girls with the most handsome boy. And this girl or a boy can choose only one that is why this is unrequited love for the rest.

People start to remember their first love when they feel the necessity to feel that tenderness and that first worry and anxiety of the first love.

This period is the most dangerous for teenagers. Because they do many stupid and inconsiderable things and sometimes because of being jealous or to revenge, they do things that can't be named normal. Sometimes they can even hurt themselves. Most suicides of teenagers happen because of the first love.

Sometimes first love can be so strong that teenagers can't manage it. In such cases a good talk with parents or friends can really help. A psychologist can also be useful but as a rule teenagers don't like to visit doctors and especially psychologists.

But mostly we get only the best memories of the first love and we remember it forever and we keep it with special tenderness in our hearts.