Does marriage ruin love?

When people are in love with each other and want to spend all their life together, they decide to get married. Sometimes some problems appear after that, but if people love each other everything is going to be ok.

So a lot of people don't want to get married because they think that marriage ruins love and all the relationships. This question is very much discussed. There are a lot of pinions about marriage and love. Because the purpose of getting married is not always love.

Of course the period of dating when you get everything new like first kisses, first hugs, and new information about likes and dislikes of a person, his attitude to this or that things is the most interesting. Every day offers something new for you and you get it. Even the first fight with your beloved person is not a real fight. You feel so much attractiveness and interest to him/her that you even like to these little fights. You spend so much time during this period and you are always ready to experiment and to find the way out.

But when the marriage comes everything is ruined and you see your beloved every day and sometimes even every minute, that makes you irritate and you become nervous. The moments of expecting of your date seem to be so far away. Every-day problems bring more irritation and make you more nervous.

Quarrels and fights after the marriage are usual for the family. According to psychologists the most complicated period after the marriage is the first year, then the third year and the fifth year. After this period a family lives happily till one of the couple is 30. Crisis that comes in this age makes people do strange and unpredictable things not to mention stupid and inconsiderable desires to prove something to someone.

So during these complicated periods both wife and husband should be very patient and should forgive a lot to their beloved people.

Another complicated period is when a baby appears. The responsibility it brings becomes the problem for a couple. A husband and a wife can't share these responsibilities and as a result regular fights appear that is not good as for the baby as for the couple.

So as you can see the whole mutual life of a couple is an endless period of fights and problems. And this life can't be easy to live. So be sure you won't get bored in your marriage because it always brings you something new.

To pass through all these problems it is necessary to be really patient, to study to find compromise and the main thing is to have mutual respect and understanding.